Businessmen and Executives

Businessmen and Executives

HOW I'VE HELPED HUNDREDS OF
HIGH-ACHIEVING MEN SAVE THIER MARRIAGE IN JUST 60 DAYS
(EVEN IF SHE FILED FOR DIVORCE OR ALREADY MOVED OUT )

HOW I'VE HELPED HUNDREDS OF
HIGH-ACHIEVING MEN SAVE THIER MARRIAGES IN 60 DAYS
(EVEN IF SHE FILED FOR DIVORCE OR ALREADY MOVED OUT )

HOW I'VE HELPED HUNDREDS OF HIGH-ACHIEVING MEN SAVE THEIR MARRIAGE IN JUST 60 DAYS
(EVEN IF SHE FILED FOR DIVORCE OR MOVED OUT )

HOW I'VE HELPED HUNDREDS OF
HIGH-ACHIEVING MEN SAVE THIER MARRIAGE IN JUST 60 DAYS
(EVEN IF SHE FILED FOR DIVORCE OR ALREADY MOVED OUT )

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Don't just take my word for it…

Don't just take my word for it…

Don't just take my word for it…

Listen to real men who have been in your shoes

Listen to real men who have been in your shoes

Greg Knudsen
Vice president of MCAP Technologies.

"It's been over three years since I’ve had a drink or touched a substance… and it all started with Erik. He helped me stop chasing, helped me find my self-worth."

"It's been over three years since I’ve had a drink or touched a substance… and it all started with Erik. He helped me stop chasing, helped me find my self-worth."

Before working with Erik, Greg was heavily drinking. Even though he was doing well in his business, he was chasing his wife because she was pulling away. Since working with Erik, it's been over 3 years since touching any drink or substance and his marriage is better than ever.

Staz Nair
Actor and producer

Staz Nair
Actor and producer

"This helped me more in weeks than therapy did in a whole year. Real tools, real results and fast."

"This helped me more in weeks than therapy did in a whole year. Real tools, real results and fast."

Erik helped Staz get to the root of what was actually sabotaging his life and marriage.

John Tiberio
Owner/CEO of trucking company

John Tiberio
Owner/CEO of trucking company

"He saved my life man… he saved me… and thats something i can never repay him for."

"He saved my life man… he saved me… and thats something i can never repay him for."

John had deep realizations about himself and his marriage. He's now back to having a great relationship with his children and he's improving his marriage daily.

Matt Johnson
Owner/CEO of electrical company

Matt Johnson
Owner/CEO of electrical company

"I'm so thankful that i invested and i took this course from erik and Mayra shirkey. It changed my life."

"I'm so thankful that i invested and i took this course from erik and Mayra shirkey. It changed my life."

Matt was married as an "insecure man" for many years. He put what Erik taught him into practice and learned to have a much better, stable, and happy marriage.

THE MAN BEHIND IT ALL

THE MAN
BEHIND IT ALL

The story of how Erik found a passion in saving marriages for hundreds of men

The story of how Erik found a passion in saving marriages for hundreds of men

The story of how Erik found a passion in saving marriages for hundreds of men

The story of how Erik found a passion in saving marriages for hundreds of men

Erik shirkey

Erik shirkey

Founder, Ultimate Man

Founder, Ultimate Man

In 2016, my marriage was a war zone.


Fights. Drinking. Drugs. I was reactive, unstable, and blind to how toxic I’d become.


But I blamed her.


Eventually, she looked me in the eye and said, “I’m done.” And she meant it.


I panicked—begged, promised, performed. But nothing worked…

because I wasn’t changing. I was acting.


That’s when it hit me: this wasn’t a marriage problem. It was a me problem.


I was trying to fix the relationship without fixing myself.


When I finally faced the man in the mirror—my wounds, my patterns, my leadership—that’s when everything changed.


Today, not only is my marriage stronger than ever… I’ve helped hundreds of men repair theirs.


And I want to help you too.

In 2016, my marriage was a war zone.


Fights. Drinking. Drugs. I was reactive, unstable, and blind to how toxic I’d become.


But I blamed her.


Eventually, she looked me in the eye and said, “I’m done.” And she meant it.


I panicked—begged, promised, performed. But nothing worked…

because I wasn’t changing. I was acting.


That’s when it hit me: this wasn’t a marriage problem. It was a me problem.


I was trying to fix the relationship without fixing myself.


When I finally faced the man in the mirror—my wounds, my patterns, my leadership—that’s when everything changed.


Today, not only is my marriage stronger than ever… I’ve helped hundreds of men repair theirs.


And I want to help you too.

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Other Help

Other Help

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Surface-level advice that sounds good,

but solves nothing

Surface-level advice that sounds good,

but solves nothing

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Vague timelines and no clear end in sight

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Focused on "fixing her" instead of developing you

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Pointless therapy that can last up to a year with no solutions

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Coached by men who aren't married or have been in your shoes

Proven methods that saved 300+ high-achieving men to win back their wife

Measureable breakthroughs in as little as 30-60 days

Tactical, step-by-step process built for men like you

1-on-1 support and brotherhood when the crisis hits

Results that speak louder than therapy ever could

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Who you will be 8 weeks FROM NOW

Who you will be

8 weeks FROM NOW

Who you will be

8 weeks From Now

The ANXIOUS, powerless man

begging, pleading, slowly losing her for good

begging, pleading, slowly losing her for good

SHE'S EMOTIONALLY CHECKED OUT — AND YOU CAN FEEL IT

SHE'S EMOTIONALLY CHECKED OUT — AND YOU CAN FEEL IT

SHE'S TALKING SEPARATION… OR ALREADY FILING

SHE'S TALKING SEPARATION… OR ALREADY FILING

YOU'VE LOST YOUR EDGE, CONFIDENCE, AND POWER

YOU'VE LOST YOUR EDGE, CONFIDENCE, AND POWER

SHE CARES ABOUT YOU… BUT DOESN'T DESIRE YOU

SHE CARES ABOUT YOU… BUT DOESN'T DESIRE YOU

YOU KEEP ARGUING, OVERSHARING, AND MAKING IT WORSE

YOU KEEP ARGUING, OVERSHARING, AND MAKING IT WORSE

Keep PUSHING HER AWAY

Keep PUSHING HER AWAY

OR

The Ultimate man

ATTRACTING HER BY BECOMING THE MAN SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH

SHE'S FALLEN IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN

YOU'VE REGAINED YOUR POWER AND RESPECT

SHE'S CHECKED BACK IN

YOU'VE FIXED THE ROOT PROBLEMS, NOT JUST ADDRESSED THE SYMPTOMS

SHE FEELS SAFE WITH YOU AGAIN

WIN BACK YOUR MARRIAGE

WIN BACK YOUR MARRIAGE

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What You’ll Get with my help

What You’ll Get
with my help

An 8-week program to go from facing divorce to reconnecting with your wife with what I call The SHIFT method.

An 8-week program to go from facing divorce to reconnecting with your wife with what I call The SHIFT method.

See the Truth

Stop lying to yourself and everyone around you. Stop blaming. This is where we discover how the heck you got to this place and you become brutally honest and aware.

Honor the Root

This is about doing the deep emotional work and identifying your wounds and behaviors that have pushed your wife away for years without seeing it. This is why it was a surprise to you when she threatened divorce.

Interrupt the Pattern

The same habits that destroyed your marriage won’t save it. This is where I help you break the dysfunctional cycles, like anger, withdrawal, addictions, over-talking, chasing, and finally learn emotional regulation.

Forge the New Man

This is where the man stops trying to win her back, and becomes the man worth her chasing after again. I guide him to build a new identity that his wife would be stupid to leave. A man he has never been.

Turn the Relationship

When HE shifts, she shifts. He learns how to engage with her, make amends, rebuild trust, and create emotional safety again. But it starts from a new foundation, not desperation, but leadership.

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Over 300+ Marriages Saved

Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know this program will work for me?

Will this help even if I'm seperated or she moved out?

Is this therapy or counseling?

What if my wife says she's done? Is it too late?

How much time will this take each week?

What if I've already tried everything?

How do I know this program will work for me?

Will this help even if I'm seperated or she moved out?

Is this therapy or counseling?

What if my wife says she's done? Is it too late?

How much time will this take each week?

What if I've already tried everything?

How do I know this program will work for me?

Will this help even if I'm seperated or she moved out?

Is this therapy or counseling?

What if my wife says she's done? Is it too late?

How much time will this take each week?

What if I've already tried everything?

How do I know this program will work for me?

Will this help even if I'm seperated or she moved out?

Is this therapy or counseling?

What if my wife says she's done? Is it too late?

How much time will this take each week?

What if I've already tried everything?

Proven methods that saved 300+ marriages